Saturday, July 13, 2019

Get on the wagon

No seriously, get on the wagon!

A little over three years ago I found the power of Twitter.  I joined in on chats with educators around the country and began getting inspired.  I started feeling less isolated as a principal and more connected, as I found other lead learners who had the same values and were willing to do whatever it takes for kids.  I embraced them and began to know them on an even more personal level as the connections shifted from monthly chats on twitter to daily connections on Voxer in the #momsasprincipals and #principalsinaction groups.  

The key is, I was open to trying it.  I prioritized the time and the connections.  I began to value the drive to work each morning that gave me a chance to share my life with my friends through the Voxer walkie talkie app.  They eventually became like family! 

Over the last three years we vented, we learned, we shared our ups, we got vulnerable, and we released our daily grind stresses to each other.  

Truth is: they saved me!  

They gave me hope, kept me focused, and helped me reflect.  

We push each other to get out of our comfort zones and this year I had the opportunity to present with 7 of these amazing leaders during a “disrupt administration” #naespBOOM session at the National Association of School Administrators Conference.  Talk about intimidating, presenting with colleagues that I admire so much!  I was able to share ideas around bringing literacy beyond the four walls of our school while these other leaders helped push the envelope in the areas of play, getting out of the office, reimagining faculty meetings, literacy, and faculty engagement.

 It. Was. Epic! 

If you haven’t attended a NAESP conference, get on board.  It’s one of the greatest learning experiences and networking opportunities you can have as a school leader. 



I’m so lucky to have found a tribe and I urge you to “get on the wagon!”  Build your PLN, put yourself out there on twitter, get invested in a daily Voxer group with educators that share your vision, and sign up to attend NAESP in Louisville, Kentucky next year.  You deserve it! 

Check out my #naespboom crew on twitter


If you missed our “Disrupt Admin” session, no worries! Access the presentation here: bit.ly/DisruptAdmin

Make a copy & reach out to us if you have any questions! #NAESP19 

Thursday, February 7, 2019

Once Upon a Time...



It's been three years since I have taken on the adventure of leading Vero Beach Elementary.  I wanted to share the reflection that I was recently asked to do about my purpose. I apologize that it's so long, but it's been quite the journey.


Thank you Dr. Rendell and the School Board members who had the faith and trust in VBE.  The pixie dust is the extra magic of the #vbevibe and we know that comes directly from our students.  It's been the consistency and trust built over these three years that have allowed us to put the systems and structures in place for ALL students to find success, each and every day.  Your commitment to the tribe does not go unnoticed or unappreciated.  



Once Upon a Time… 

I never thought that I would enter the world of being a Principal in the fashion that I did. In January of 2016, the Superintendent of Indian River County schools, Dr. Mark Rendell, made an unannounced visit to Sebastian River Middle School, with an urgent request. I was tasked with making a split-second decision that has forever changed my role in both my family and my district; I accepted a Principal position at Vero Beach Elementary, home of the Little Indians. There was no sugar coating the reality of the school. It was in dire need and serious action was required to turn the school around. The school had over 90% of the students on free or reduced lunch, 22% were students with disabilities, 18% were second-language learners, 64% of the student population were minorities, and over 1,000 discipline referrals had already been accumulated in the first semester of the school year. To be honest, the data wasn’t what scared me – Title I is where my heart is – but I was nervous taking on the challenge. I had heard stories from local educators, warnings from colleagues about gangs, and horror stories of what to expect; let me just tell you... they were wrong. This school was home to some of the most amazing little humans that I have ever met. It took just one day to realize that this would become my passion and my mission. To help create the environment and belief in our TRIBE that we can and we will turn Vero Beach Elementary from a school of transformation, to a school of innovation.


If you can dream it, you can do it…

It would only make sense that I became a principal through unique circumstances, as nothing in my life has been “by the book.” The truth is, I never intended to get into education in the first place. I didn’t “play teacher” growing up; I didn’t have dreams of grading papers or pretend my stuffed animals were my students.

Going to the University of Florida as a Political Science major, I had big dreams of changing the world as an attorney. I even spent time while growing up in North Lauderdale, Florida investing in law enforcement as a police explorer on the weekends during high school I spent time riding along with officers so that I had a perspective that I thought would support my career as a defense attorney. However, while at UF, I had a course requirement of tutoring under-privileged children in Alachua County Housing Authority. It only took one math problem to change my entire vision for my future.

Through the course of my career as an educator, 11 years as a middle school teacher, 2 ½ years as an Assistant Principal at Sebastian River Middle School, and 3 years as the Principal of Vero Beach Elementary School, I have realized that my idea that I can change the world has never been abandoned – it’s just been modified through the career and relationships I’ve been fortunate enough to build. 

I won't pretend that there weren't many moments from January through June of 2016 that I didn't seriously contemplate, "What did I get myself into?" and "Am I really the right person to lead this journey?" Several days I envisioned a camera crew jumping out and saying, "just kidding, you're being pranked." From students eloping from class, to nonstop calls for assistance over the radios, no clear tiered process of support for behavior at all, to walking into a kindergarten class and seeing students sitting on the bookcases as they waved down, I had my work cut out for me. There were the nay-sayers who felt that I was probably too young, inexperienced, and lacked an elementary school background. However, I had one thing going for me, the Superintendent believed in me and my vision. He was whole heartedly supportive of the direction of changing the school from a traumatized environment into a school of innovation.  Despite hearing that our school was a “lost cause” I never lost hope in the potential I saw in the school. I have always loved the kids that others feel are "challenging." I've never felt a kid was "too far gone" or "unreachable." Now, I just needed to take that sentiment and multiply it times 760 students. What they couldn't have understood is that I'm a mama bear, and these were all now my cubs. Watch out.

The good news is, those days of chaos were limited. It's hard to immediately change an adult-centered environment into a student-centered one. Sometimes tradition can be great and sometimes it can be something that people hold so tight to that they forget to look at what's best for children. We are now proud to share that we have dropped our discipline 98% over the past three years and have become a culture of accountability and kindness, one that others look at as a model of what can be done when students are at the center of every decision being made. 

I think it all began with setting the highest expectations for our staff when I came in. I opened the door to anyone who wasn't 100% committed to the hard work that would take place over the course of the turnaround. There was complete transparency as to what would be required and the reality that the school was in and where it was headed. I met with every single staff member and asked them what they would change if they were in charge, what expectations they felt every member of the team should be held to, and what was tradition that they felt should remain. It set the tone and showed the team that I value them and their input, but I didn’t shy away from the fact that second order change was necessary to not only improve the school, but the perception in the community. 

We started by creating an atmosphere that encouraged collaborative planning to take the forefront of professional learning. No more teaching in isolation. No more departmentalization. The students needed a person, and the school needed consistency and fewer transitions. While pockets of innovation were extremely impressive, we needed to shift our mindset to create a school and culture of innovation. Our students all deserve to come in and feel loved and challenged. We were no longer happy with "good enough" or simply "keeping kids safe." 100% of our teams collaborate now on Tuesday and Thursday every week in our media center, which allows for accountability and vertical planning. There is evidence of collaborative planning in the walkthroughs that take place weekly on our campus by our coaches and administrative team. Our teachers use pineapple charts to share the strategies with other grade levels and we have full school implementation of interactive student notebooks, so students learn the expectations in kindergarten and have a stable platform to showcase their learning throughout their experience at VBE. 

To keep the initial progress going, I must be honest, the single most important thing I have done at Vero Beach Elementary is bring the right people to the tribe. I ended up with 17 teaching spots to hire for during the summer after my first six months on campus. Nine spots were positions needing filling from our substitute positions, while the remaining were staff members that were either asked to leave or needed a change to a more compliant environment. What I will say is it gave me an advantage to hire first. I scoured through applicants across the nation focusing on inclusive hiring practices; which lead to bringing in a diverse staff that more mirrored the demographics of our school. This lead to an increase from 3% of our teaching staff being Hispanic or African American, to now 35% of our teaching staff. Beyond being culturally responsive in hiring practices, I also had to recognize that it truly takes a very special person to work in a school where 90% of the students live at or near the poverty line. It takes an even more incredible person who will take this on when the principal tells them that although there are some challenging behaviors, our first intervention will not be suspending our students. Mindfulness, restorative practices, and counseling became a part of our tiered approach to behavior. As a staff, we agreed that we will not have students missing recess due to misbehavior, we will not allow public discipline with behavior charts, and embarrassing tactics would not be tolerated. We agreed that if we show our students that we respect them and we model de-escalation strategies as part of our daily brain smart start, we will make gains in our tier one behavior. The result, the most amazing group of tribe members to join our staff of already committed educators, one of which even made it as a top 5 finalist for Florida Teacher of the Year, Kate Fiori. 

The next step was creating a culture of buy-in. A huge data wall takes up the entire front of the administrative office. This data wall holds our entire staff accountable. It requires us to throw out old practices and prioritize high-yield strategies that will help us make the learning gains our students
deserve. It empowers us to fail forward and to also look at areas of success and ask the right questions to figure out how to multiply that across grade levels. It’s a way to open conversations about best practice and create a culture where we are begging to get into each other’s classes to see what is working for our students. Thus, our teachers have now taken ownership over professional learning at our school. We now have a Teacher Leadership Committee, a strategy I heard about after attending the Model Schools Conference, that allows our teachers to organize and facilitate weekly professional development that stems from what is needed from the trenches of our classrooms. It built trust and focus for our tribe. 

One part of the story and transformation of Vero Beach Elementary has been listening to the staff. We have made the commitment as a team to focus on our VIBE: Visualize Success, Inspire Learning, Believe in the Tribe, and Exceed Expectations. The “vibe” sentiment is something I recently shared as a featured speaker at the Association for Middle Level Educators conference in Orlando, Florida. “Your vibe attracts your tribe,” has been our mantra and has inspired every action I have taken with our school. If we want to be a high-performing learning environment we must look and act the part. One thing that I found that had been most difficult in breaking bad habits, surprisingly, is that our staff was not believing in the tribe. What I noticed is the narrative in the community was coming from negative talk our teachers were doing about the school. We had to confront and address the realities, create the plan of action together, and then focus on showcasing the positive changes of the school in a public way. I began blogging about the school transformation and our staff started a relentless social media presence so that, as a tribe, we can share the new chapter of VBE. Our community, families, and the public can watch the innovation taking place in classrooms day to day, including project-based learning, robotics, collaborative activities, and literacy practices. The community always has a pulse on the school by following #vbevibe on twitter, instagram, or our facebook page. The parents were so overwhelmingly supportive that they requested our entire school join class dojo so we can also have a private platform to share the amazing stories of our campus as well. In fact, our social media presence has become a resource for other schools across the country that follow our “vibe” and use what we showcase to inspire their staff. Our entire school was asked to participate in a #kidsdeserveit six month long slow chat on twitter last year, working with three other schools form around America that also believe in a student-centered approach. This PD allowed our staff to be open and vulnerable as we read the book, “Kids Deserve It,” we shared how we were using the strategies in the book to improve our pedagogy and craft through this platform. One of the things other schools seem to respond most positive to is how we listen to the needs of our students. Voice and choice are two key elements to moving a school forward. I got tired of hearing people say that elementary students, "don't know what they want." Yes, they do. They want to be heard. Thus, we completely revolutionized the students’ "specials" in 5th grade. Noticing spikes in behavior, it was clear that the students had certain days that they would "act out." The previous model required our students to do a day of each special, each week. It was very traditional and it was not giving our students a chance to become experts in an area. I asked for approval to change the model for VBE, and we have had electives for 5th grade ever since. The students were ready to CHOOSE what they want their enrichment experience. We now have the only 5th grade band program in Indian River County, an advanced science elective where students design, build, and race box cars, advanced pottery, sports programs, and an innovative Media Maker Space. They love it. The students needed their voices to be heard and the data has supported this position as well. By having a STEAM elective, we have seen a steady progression from only 24% of our students showing proficiency in science in 2016 to 39% of our students proficient in 2018, a gain of 15 overall. 

Voice doesn’t end within the walls of VBE. I had to honor and respect the voice of the community, many of whom were ready to abandon the school before I came. I started a coffee-talk with our families and community, I call it the "fam-unity." The truth is, our school was an "F." As a tribe, we had to embrace where we were if we were ever going to move forward. That "F" created a sense of urgency that I had to acknowledge as a leader. I wanted to hear and address their concerns and share all the innovative programs that we planned to take place at our school. My coffee talks have focused on many different topics over the years, from enrichment opportunities, data share-outs, vision and mission building, literacy engagement at home, and parent and community involvement. 

By involving the entire community, we have received so much support. The local Elks write a $10,000 grant each year to support and run our PBIS store that takes place each Friday. The members of Pillar Church and the First Methodist United Church mentor our students and do weekly “high ‘five” greetings on Tuesday. The Winners Walk Tall Program has grown to where every single classroom has a mentor, mostly made up of local retirees, who comes in to work with the class each week on a character trait to help build our social skills. I have written and received grants to our school that support project-based learning and STEAM projects as well. I don’t believe we would be in the position to receive all this support if we didn’t engage them in the conversation first. We do tours of our school and showcase the magic throughout our school. I guess I just always like to push the envelope when it comes to creating a culture of excellence. As a tribe, we took on the Walt Disney philosophy that “If you can dream it, you can do it.” This can be seen radiating through our hallways that are filled with our own students’ pictures on canvases. I believe that to create a thriving culture, I must take every possible opportunity to celebrate and recognize the incredible accomplishments at VBE, and share that message. Whether I’m loading a limousine with students who made the biggest gains on unit assessments, or serving pizza to students who earned Positive Principal Referrals, or acknowledging the hard work my 5th graders have put into our lunch bunch book group, it’s always about what is best for kids. Kids deserve to feel welcomed, respected, and celebrated and we love sharing that belief and sentiment with our community. 

Data, Data, on the Wall… 

Data is sometimes thought of as a "dirty" word in education. I am one of the weird ones who loves looking at data as an incredible source to help make informed student-centered decisions. I'm lucky to have a tribe that also feels that accountability and transparency are important to make decisions that are best for our students. Coming into a school where only 29% of students were proficient readers, data became the driving force of second-order change. The sad truth is that our current 3rd-5th graders didn’t all get the foundational learning experiences they deserved due to the number of substitutes, departmentalization, and instability of the school. We don’t allow this to be an excuse. We still expect that these students have opportunities to do grade level tasks and activities with demonstrations of learning each day, however we did create a team of interventionists that are here to support them with accommodations and deep foundational learning experiences. We have a true walk-to-intervention model in every single grade level from second through fifth grade. What this means is that, “all hands are on deck,” at VBE. This allows us to get our groups needing support small enough to do progress monitoring and differentiated instruction, but it also allows for us to create enrichment studies as we dive into rich novels, science units, and project-based learning opportunities. I still see some evidence of the early year impact on some of our students that are in the upper grades, but I have spent a lot of time building resources and interventions for these kiddos, including an after-school program for our retained third graders and our bottom quartile fourth and fifth grade students. I used grants to create the, “helping improve performance,” (HIP) club and we partnered with a local organization, the learning alliance, to strengthen a program called the “moonshot academy,” which focuses on STEAM learning after school with our first through third graders on the verge of proficiency. Data drives every intervention.

I decided that in addition to English Language Arts (ELA), Math, and Science monitoring, we needed to study our school wide writing data, collaborative units, office discipline referrals, attendance, and AR reading data. These 8 areas are tracked by grade level and are fully visible at all times in a main hallway of the office. I take parents and guests to VBE by the wall to show them areas of growth and improvement we are working on. Our School Advisory Council uses it to help show progress towards our school improvement plan goals each month as well. I also use it to help determine areas that may need additional support, and areas that we can celebrate. It's amazing each month to see our data continue to roll in based on our interventions and tier one instructional support. Through the time that I’ve been able to lead Vero Beach Elementary we have been able to showcase the following increases from 2016 to 2018: a 15 point gain in our Science Proficiency, ELA learning gains increase from 35% to 46%, our bottom quartile learning gains increase from 41% gains to 50% in ELA, our math proficiency jump from 23% to 39%, our math learning gains increase from 29% to 44%. The most exciting part of our data is that our kindergarten through second grade iReady scores are comparative to some of the highest performing schools in our district. We didn’t neglect our primary grades to make a superficial jump for our school. We are truly building a sustainable system that will only continue to improve. We are confident that we are on our way to becoming an “A” school. 

“First, think, Second, dream. Third, believe. And finally, dare.” - Walt Disney

At Vero Beach Elementary, we have fully embraced the role literacy plays in changing lives. I made many home visits over each summer, but this summer I took teachers and staff members along, and what we recognized was that our students lacked books at home. I knew this was something that needed to be a priority this year. I partnered with Scholastic to create a literacy explosion on our campus. This was done through a series of surprises to create a magical experience and positive memories that our students will hold and connect with literacy for the rest of their lives. Each class entered our Media Center, which had been transformed into a massive book distribution center, to witness the curtain drop and the big reveal… every single student could select 11 books to establish their own personal libraries at home. The impact that that made on families is something I could have never imagined. Parents came in crying after their children selected books in their home language, allowing them to do their first ever read-aloud as a family. Grandparents sent pictures of their loved ones, thanking us for getting them off video games and into the magical world of Harry Potter. Family members were excited to share that their children chose reading over arguing, and cleaned special areas of their room for their precious, coveted books. It’s a feeling like no other. The magic continued, as teachers were then surprised with a literacy gift of their own. Each educator selected $500 worth of books to enhance their classroom libraries and expand our independent reading conferencing. Little do they know; this is only part 2 of a 4-part magical literacy experience at VBE this year. We are daring to change the norm around literacy. It will absolutely be a game changer for our school.

What we’re seeing as a result of the focus on literacy is that our school, which was once at the bottom of every ELA unit assessment, is now not only competitive; but in some grade levels, exceeding our district average. While we have made steady growth over the last 3 years in ELA, setting the foundation for tier one instruction, we’re finally able to offer differentiated guided reading and enrichment opportunities for our students. Something exciting is that through changing the reputation of the school, I have been able to bring back students from our neighborhoods, and our Kindergarten class is currently scoring among the top of all of Indian River County.

While the data is significant, the most notable change at Vero Beach Elementary is the love our students have for school. Our students show up every day ready for high-fives and fist-bumps, and we’re even recognized nationally as one of the kindest schools in America. The most rewarding moments come when the principals of the middle schools share how my students are thriving in their schools. I sometimes giggle knowing the transformation that has happened with that child over the course of their experience at VBE… things those principals could never imagine. It makes every part of working relentlessly in a Title I school worth it. 

“All you need is faith, trust, and a little pixie dust.” - Tinkerbell

It feels great to be supported and have a consistent message from our district.  We are kid first thanks to the support.



Wednesday, February 6, 2019

Get ready for the aftermath!



I will warn you, when you give your kiddos choice and voice, set time aside for the unexpected. Truth is, I could not be prouder of our 5th graders. They are showcasing their maturity and growth, both academically and emotionally, in so many capacities. 

I must admit though, this was a surprise even for me.  I was asked by this group to schedule a meeting, apparently they have been working on a proposal for the last few weeks during recess.

Can I just say, I can’t imagine as a 5th grader feeling empowered to come up with an idea, do research, and set up a meeting with my principal to advocate on behalf of 29 students who are going above and beyond to make positive contributions to our school and our community. 

These are our future leaders.

These kiddos are our hope.

These GIRLS are ready to show the entire world what the #vbevibe means.

I couldn’t be more proud of them!

Now, I guess I need to set up a committee meeting.  ;)


Get ready Oslo, Storm Grove, and Gifford.
The tribe is going to rock your schools with positivity and inspiration.



Monday, November 19, 2018

Literacy Legends at Vero Beach Elementary!



This summer, as always, we took time to do home visits for some of our Vero Beach Elementary families.  A big change was that so many of our teachers and staff wanted to come along.  We truly miss our students over the break and this gives us a chance to go and see them right in their homes. We packed my truck up with books, flash cards, games, and some care kits that were put together by one of our local churches, and then we headed out each day.  The students we were able to visit were so excited when we showed up with the science-based books, they literally grabbed them out of our hands!  However, it left us feeling a little deflated after we visited home after home and realized that so many of our students do not own any books, and many lack transportation and means to get to the public library.  It was obvious right away that a long-term goal of Vero Beach Elementary needed to be tied around literacy.  We needed to create a  movement that would not only have our students embracing reading at school, but beyond the four walls of VBE.  To create a lifelong love of literacy, we needed to go BIG! 

Then I had an amazing gift. The gift of another inspired leader.

I went to the National Association of Elementary School Principals convention later that summer and was memorized as a result of a project that was done by Todd Nesloney, principal and lead learner of a title-one school in Texas.  It gave me a vision for our school, I immediately tweeted out that I simply needed $100,000 to create the most aggressive literacy initiative that Florida has ever seen.  Not 10 minutes later did I get an email from my social media savvy Superintendent, Dr. Mark Rendell, stating that Vero Beach Elementary qualified for a state grant that would make my lofty dream an attainable one, to create a literacy explosion at our school.



Over the course of the summer I connected with representatives from Scholastic to put together this incredible surprise.  They were amazing! We kept the event a secret, even the teachers were unaware of the event.  The result, we transformed our media center into a huge book distribution area.  Every single student entered and watched as we dropped a giant curtain and revealed that they were going to get a chance to select 11 books each to take home and keep forever.  

The videos below give just a glimpse of the magic that took place.  After our students had the experience, Scholastic helped completely break down the student book distribution and brought in an entirely new event, in which we surprised each classroom teacher with a $500 shopping spree to boost their classroom libraries.  Building a love of literacy from the inside, out.


While planning for the event, I could have never imagined the profound impact this would make on our families.  One parent came to visit me with her children and shared that for the first time, she was able to do a read-aloud with her family because her son picked a book that was written in Spanish.  The tears streaming down her face were no match for the pride in her voice, she was given the opportunity to actively participate in her child's education.  This will impact me forever as a leader.



Others shared stories of how their children were "missing" only to be found hiding in their closet with a flashlight and book, reading the latest Dogman series.  Others exclaimed joy as the students chose to read over playing video games, arguing with siblings, or creating a mess in their houses.  One grandparent shared a picture with me of her granddaughters cleaning a special area of their room for their coveted, precious books, the beginning of their own personal libraries.  The magic of the event is that every single child was given an opportunity for a positive childhood memory to be created, tied around literacy.  My hope is that it not only makes them love reading now, but that they will take this memory into their adult lives and it will encourage them to create "pixie-dust" moments around literacy for their own children.




"All you need is faith, trust, and a little pixie-dust"   -Tinkerbell

Little does our VBE family know... this is only 2 parts of a 4 part literacy explosion that will continue throughout this school year!!! 

TCPalm Article By Laurence Reisman



Which led to this... the gift of literacy continues. 





Saturday, August 4, 2018

Create the Magic!!!

I’m so lucky to be a part of some incredible learning networks through Twitter, Facebook, and Voxer.  Administrators from around our nation share ideas through these outlets and keep each other inspired and focused on doing what’s best for kiddos.  What is amazing is, every lead learner is committed to growing!

An inspiration of mine is a fellow “Moms as Principal” leader,  Lynn Colon, who believes there is tremendous power in bringing the Disney magic and business philosophy to schools. Check out her article here:  Your Guide to Running a School Like Disney World  Our theme this year is, “if you can dream it, you can do it.”  We believe that making experiences for our kiddos will change the game!

We have committed to “bringing the magic,” to Vero Beach Elementary!  A focus of ours is; how we can create amazing learning experiences for kiddos?

We can start by creating opportunities to build relationships with our amazing teams!

Today, 60 staff members met in the orange groves on a Saturday, thanks to Learning Alliance of Indian River County and Hammond Groves, for our annual staff retreat!  For three hours we embraced team building, set our non-negotiable for planning, literacy, and STEM, and had a little Disney fun sprinkled in.

It’s all about serving our guests with amazing learning experiences, which starts by serving our learning experience designers with opportunities to build magical relationships!

Here are some typical questions I get about the retreat:

1. How do you pay for the VBE swag?
     Our PTA helped sponsor the staff shirts, sunglasses, and hats!  We also had other local businesses join in!

2.  How do you provide breakfast and lunch?
     We build partnerships in the community!  We are lucky to have an amazing relationship with Valic who provides all of our food today.  Bonus, they come out to the retreat and help our staff create plans for their retirement and savings!

3.  What activities do you do?
     Our tribal council plans games that are all given point value for the winning.  We also set a “Goosechase” scavenger hunt, using the free app, that is part of a school-wide competition.  This year the winning team will each get $100, per person, to build up their classroom libraries!!!
     Games-  sponge relay, plank contest, hula hoop contest
     Challenges- Disney themed handshake, movie scene challenge, and lip sync contest.

In all reality, it’s a great way to sprinkle some pixie dust to start our year!

One vibe.  One tribe.




Wednesday, July 25, 2018

Early Learning Excellence!

As a working mom and principal, I’m rarely home.

The honest truth is that I would like to think that because of how much I truly value education and opportunities for kiddos, that I spend an enormous amount of time with my own boys teaching them foundational skills and reading to them every night.  The truth is, I don’t.


I don’t always have the time.
I don’t always have the energy.
Sometimes I hand my boys my phone.
Sometimes I allow the TV to engage them during dinner.


However, I’ve been extremely lucky to have an amazing team behind me, ensuring that their needs are met.  On a recent family trip, that became incredibly obvious.



As we were driving down to Islamorada in my truck, my five year old spent part of the trip counting to 100, rhyming words, asking questions, asking us to quiz him on letter sounds in words... he wanted us to interact with him with what he learned this summer.

You see, he has been a part of an incredible program offered by Indian River County called, Step into Kindergarten.  Through generous donations, grants, and local support our incoming title-one kindergartners are given an opportunity for a summer learning experience to prepare them for entering school.  I was absolutely blown away by the growth the kiddos made at VBE as a principal and lead learner, but it hit even harder when I was able to watch my own child leave this summer as an emergent reader.


I want every single child to come into elementary school feeling this confident, proud, and eager to share what they are learning.  I’m so thankful to live in a community that values this, that realizes funding programs like STEP into K, will lead to future success for our children.

Thank you Karen Malits for organizing this, monitoring it, and for ensuring our kiddos are given opportunities to find success before entering Kindergarten!

Thank you Cynthia Falardeau for being an incredible asset to our district, your devotion to our students is something that I value and treasure. You are one of the reasons why our District has and will remain successful!

Thank you Brooke Flood, for organizing and running an incredible pre-K program!  Our families rave about the learning and opportunities given to their children that set them up for outstanding results!

On a proud principal note, we were lucky enough to have two and a half classes of students from my school alone participate in the program.  Over 40 students at Vero Beach Elementary will enter our learning environment ready to take on the challenges and rigor!  Our Little Indians are ready to thrive!

Thank you to all the sponsors, donors, and grants that make programs like this available to our kiddos.

Your investment in our community doesn’t go unnoticed or unappreciated.


STEP into K




Friday, July 6, 2018

5 Steps to Increase Self-Care as a Principal.



We've all seen the leaders that pride themselves on the, "celebration of busy."  Those who come early, stay late, and share the chaos of the day and late hours they have put in at work, with the world.

That was me. I wore "busy" like a badge.

I think we all perpetuate this notion that busy is better, as we drive across Florida and see the school buildings in the dark, with the administration and educator spots still filled, using this to measure how hard we work to maintain success in our buildings. The reality is, I do tend to over-value the idea that being busy, staying later, and over-committing is something that should be recognized and respected.  As a principal, I have made the vow to discontinue this practice and I will start celebrating the self-care of myself and my staff.  I noticed as the years in administration added on, so have the pounds, caffeine, missed meals, and deflated dreams of getting to the gym.  This summer, however, I decided to re-commit, to myself.

I can't pour from an empty cup and my family and I deserve for my cup to be filled with self-love!



My job is not getting any easier, however, here is how I built self-care into my daily routine.   

1. Practice "Unplugging" Daily.

I have become a fan of the digital morning detox!

If you're anything like me,  your inbox is filled in the morning with emails and updates.  Add on social media notifications and it can feel like you're drowning before you have even fully opened your eyes.  My old practice was to lie in bed and scroll through the emails, answer the ones that seemed urgent, plan my day based on my calendar, and set priorities for what needs to be accomplished.  This usually led to me scrolling through social media, and before I know it, thirty minutes has been wasted.  All of this took place before my feet ever met the carpet next to my bed.  The first hour of the day sets your intentions for the rest of your day.  I'm working on not plugging in for the first half hour using this time to practice gratitude, stretch, and walk the dog.  Grabbing a cup of coffee before even considering touching my phone has been quite the daunting task, but I have found this to be the most rewarding practice of self-care.  What I've learned is, I deserve this time to set my focus.  The emails can wait.

2. Engage In Daily Exercise Or Mental Breaks

I must admit, I was in denial of how out of shape I was.  After finally committing to joining a boxing gym, I have found that I'm much more alert and energized throughout the day.  Start small and set your intention for what works for you. I realized that I was letting excuses get in the way of practicing self-care.  Once I got realistic about when and where I could squeeze in workouts, I found that everything worked itself out.  

3. Enjoy Rest And Solitude

I'm not a particularly patient person.  Even in moments where I should be relaxing, I find my head begins to spin with things that are not relevant.  Anxiety for the future gets the best of me.  I found that "enjoying rest" was much harder for me than it should be.  This has been where I've asked my family to help.  When we take mini-vacations, stay-cations, or extended time off; I've asked them to remind me to stay present.  When I start to focus on school, they are there to pull me back into living in the moment with them.  I've learned that I need to ask for help where I have areas to work on.

4. Extend My Professional Learning Network

I found that so many ideas that I wanted to implement on my campus have already been done on other campuses across the nation.  Instead of starting from scratch, by building up my personal learning network, I get support and resources from other administrators.  This has saved me so much time!  

My question for my readers is:  Why are you still not on Twitter?  What is stopping you from joining other passionate lead learners across the country?  Joining Twitter and participating in educational chats has led to some of the best professional development that I've ever been a part of.   Once you find your tribe, find other ways to connect and grow your network. These are a few groups on twitter that I would highly recommend you following. 

Twitter:
#leadupchat
#kidsdeserveit
#Principalsinaction
#leadLAP
#momsasprincipals
@schoolLeadersFL

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/principalprinciplesleadership/


5. Encourage Self-Care Of Your Staff

Here it is.  By celebrating my self-care, I encourage others to do the same.  It gives permission to the entire staff to get healthier, mindful, positive, and energized.  We all need the reminders that we need to fill our cups when we are constantly filling that of others.  

We will be starting a  @verobeachelem self-care tweet!  Summer is halfway over and I want my staff to share how they are enjoying their time.  I plan on purchasing a pedicure certificate and raffling it off to our winner!!!!



In the end, by writing this and committing to this I will be able to hold myself accountable to the small changes that will lead to me being a healthier, more productive, and well-balanced leader of the VBE VIBE.